Think About Reasons For The Breakup

If you want to discover how to get your ex boyfriend back, you must first think about the reasons he gave you for wanting to break up. Did he give you specifics or general reasons? If he gave you general reasons without a lot of detail–"You’re too clingy" or "I just don’t think we have good chemistry together"–then you’re going to need to figure out what those statements mean. If you’re still friendly eough to talk to each other without fights and tears, ask him to give you some specific details. Be forewarned: you might not like what you hear. When you have your specific answers–"I hate that you call me 10 times a night when I"m out with the guys, it makes me feel like you don’t trust me" or "We don’t have many common interests"–think about what those differences mean for you.